Friday, 6 December 2013

Crisis of identity.

                                                
If I define the word "Identity" then I simply say “One thing that would differentiate you from the rest of the world.
But for me identity is something more than that.
It reflects who I am?
For what I am living?
What are the goals of my life?
My whole life and my each and every decision depend upon this. Why this issue of identity is so thoughtful and important for someone?
We often come to a stage where something really bother us like wealth, status, popularity etc.
Here I am using wealth, status, and popularity etc. as my reference to a thing which are most of our points of comparison with others. And here I Am not taking about good thing that we adopt from others our parents or elders. But why the wealth of other person or simply a person inspires us just because he is being appreciated by a certain number of people or his work is being admired.
Identity is something which ones need to be explore by himself. Because its make you "YOU".

Why I used the alarming word like crisis with identity is because now a days this thing is largely ignored. Or treated with little importance and we seriously need to look upon this issue.
Career, future goals, decisions perception, nature, confidence, point of view, logic, the way of thinking. Point to decide to whom with we stand and to whom we ignored, attitude etc. are directly or indirectly related to this word identity.
Try to re imagine the situation when someone says you copycat or hits you saying why are you copying me or why you always copy the others?
Or when we really feel ashamed of what or our peers says “Is you don't have any choice or something which you can do at your own?
Often we explore ourselves with what we really like and what we really like and what we really hate? What thing which really suit to me or which not?
I think these are some questions which help us fine the questions like
Role of religion identity?
Role of education in identity?
Role of society?
Who am I?
Religion, society and education can help us to find the identity?
Answer to these questions varies from person to person upon choice of religion, society and education.
If I use some poetic words then I would explain it like.
“It is Destiny or a long journey to find a treasure which you know what it would be but you are lacking one thing is the way that leads to this sacred treasure"
This self-exploration continues during the whole life.